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HHH always make fun of internet wrestling fans as being fat losers who can't get chicks.  He says this despite many of us having wives and/or girlfriends who are far better looking (and much less annoying) than his wife, Stephanie McMahon.  And don't even get us started on HHH's ex-girlfriend, Chyna.  But we digress.

Still, we know there are many of you reading this who have problems meeting beautiful women.  Or, sometimes you're able to meet them, but not able to convince them to go out with you.  Perhaps you're always just "the friend," or you're "too nice," or "too shy."  Maybe you even go out of your way to please a woman and be nice to her, only to have her blow you off for some jerk who treats her like trash.

Those jerks... how come guys who act like jerks always seem to get the girls?  Does that mean you should be a jerk too, even if you're not?

No, because instead of being a nice guy who sleeps alone, you'll be a jerk who sleeps alone.

We're here to help you.  We're happily married men, but we were once like you.  Okay, we were much worse than you.  But we did it, and you can too.

The good news is that thanks to the internet and goofy reality TV shows, there are all sorts of resources to teach you about the art of picking up women.

Girls, don't get disgusted.  We're not advocating teaching men how to sleep with you.  On the contrary, we're trying to help nice guys meet nice women, and for lots of us who get nervous and shy around women (or whatever your "problem" is), it's tough.

The vast majority of my friends in high school and college had zero luck with women.  They had no interest in becoming "players" or guys who sleep with as many women as possible.  Instead, they just wanted a girlfriend.  They wanted monogamy, they wanted love, and they wanted someone who would love them.  They were nice guys who just didn't know what to say to a woman, because no one taught them.  Not every guy was a high school football star, muscular stud, and Homecoming King.  There were the rest of us... the ones ostracized for being wrestling or MMA fans.  We hung out, played pool, played cards, and when we were old enough, drank beer together.  We ordered pizza.  We all had fun, but in 100% of the cases, each and every one of us would rather have been out on a date with a woman; a REAL woman.

We can't tell you how to meet women, but we can tell you about some resources that can.  There are a plethora of books, E-books, dating sites, and articles out there to help you on your way. 

Make sure no one else is in the room, and let's get started:

E-books. E-books are the best, because no suspicious package arrives in the mail.  No Mom or Dad signs a package for you and says, "Hey son, what's in here??  What the... you want to pick up women??  Hahahahahahaha, what a loser you are!!!!"  No thanks.  With E-books, you simply type in your credit card number, and presto, you download a book.  You can print it, disguise it, or read it straight from your computer, laptop, iPhone, or BlackBerry.  In this section, we list some popular E-books that offer some really helpful advice.  If only we had such books when we were single.

Books. If you live alone, or have parents/roommates who don't give a damn if packages come for you in the mail, then books are a good deal.  There are some really excellent ones that have come out, and if you read and apply their techniques, it's almost impossible not to fail.  Check 'em out.

Articles. There are tons of helpful articles out there, and this section has some good ones from relationship guru David Wygant.  Wygant is perhaps the best dating instructor when it comes to writing articles, and if you don't want come off as sleazy, he's the mentor for you.  Mystery (the guy on VH1's Pickup Artist) is more into meeting women in clubs and taking them home, while Wygant is just trying to help you find that someone special for a long-term relationship.  Happy reading.

Above all, don't be embarrassed.  If you have trouble meeting or dating women, you'd be absolutely amazed by how many others are in your situation.  You can either stay in that situation, or take action to get out of it.  No one will know, so just go ahead and give these E-books, books, dating sites, and articles a shot.

When any of you end up having success with some of the resources we recommend, please contact us with your success stories.  We promise you can remain anonymous.